5 to 1. Ok, I’m not sure exactly what the ratio should be, but anything above 5 is a good number. To be a true contributor to the American Orgy, you should give your partner at least 5 orgasms to your 1 – at least for those of us who are into
self-deprivation.
Slamming her from behind, watching the ass absorb the impact and feeling the shudders and contractions may seem like total self-indulgence, but put the focus on the person you are
penetrating and her cunt contracting on your cock and watch her crash on the beach of pleasure and let the waves wash over her – the only thing missing is the sand, which is a good thing where sex is concerned.
Or long stints of licking, until the neck aches and the sides of your tongue feel like needles are sticking in them, but you suck in all the juice, bask in the aroma and feel the legs quiver.
5 to 1. You just have to hold off and deprive yourself as the number climbs.
Now, Camus and others have spent a lot of time thinking about the meaning of life in terms of the ultimate self-deprivation – suicide. I’m going to take the flip side of the argument, kind of flip her over and take her missionary, instead of doggy style. The meaning of life isn’t in suicide, but in spreading the pleasure around. Too many in America are worried about themselves and not how much pleasure they give. The news today said that
2 million Americans made suicide plans in the last year. I truly believe those folks haven’t thought much about 5 to 1.
If you are worried about how to give your partner 5 orgasms to every one you get, who has time for suicide? Besides when you finally do come, in a little way, you are gone.
La petite mort, as the French say.